By Gabriela Sanchez
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In today’s culture, speed and productivity are celebrated. Fast responses, rapid growth, and close to immediate results are expected from leaders everywhere. Christian Latina leaders are no exception. Our family expectations, ministry responsibilities, cultural norms, and professional careers are constantly pressuring us to be everything for everyone.
I recently heard a saying by one of my senior leaders at work who was sharing his personal experience dealing with constant pressures. He said “here is the truth: many leaders do not burn out because they lack calling—they burn out because they try to be heroes. Heroes who never rest eventually die in battle.” These words echo in my heart and invited me to meditate on that truth from a spiritual perspective. I came to realize that Jesus never asked us to be heroes in our ministries. He asked us to be disciples.
When Good Intentions Become Heavy Burdens
The hero complex sounds noble: “I’ll fix it.” “I’ll carry it.” “I’ll rescue them.” “I’ll be strong.”
But hero leadership is hurried leadership. It pushes us to respond to every crisis, meet every need, and solve every problem even when God did not assign it to us.
As Latina leaders, we are too familiar with the cultural narratives that say:
- Sacrifice without limits.
- Hold the family together.
- Serve the church tirelessly
- Be the strong one.
Paul gives us a clear picture of what a Spirit‑formed life looks like:
But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things (Galatians 5:22-23).
Notice what is not on the list:
- tireless service
- constant availability
- nonstop productivity
- hurry
These are not fruits of the Spirit—they are symptoms of pressure.
A life full of the Spirit produces peace, not panic. Patience, not urgency. Self-control, not overcommitment. Love, not exhaustion.
In his book titled The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, John Mark Comer teaches that hurry and constant service are opposite responses to a life shaped by the Spirit. When we lead from hurry, we lead from the flesh. When we lead from peace, we lead from the Spirit.
This truth alone dismantles the hero complex.
Jesus: The Leader Who Refused to Hurry
Jesus faced constant demands—crowds, expectations, emergencies, opportunities. Yet He consistently rejected the pressure to rush, perform, or rescue everyone at once.
Here are some of many examples from the gospels:
1. Jesus refuses to rush to heal Lazarus
John 11:6 — He stays two more days. He chooses obedience over pressure.
2. Jesus withdraws from crowds at the height of His popularity
Luke 5:15–16 — He often withdrew to pray. He didn’t let momentum dictate His pace.
3. Jesus stops for the woman with the issue of blood
Mark 5:30–32 — Jesus stopped on his way from another medical emergency. He chose presence over hurry.
4. Jesus sleeps during the storm
Mark 4:38 — He rests while others panic. His peace is spiritual authority.
Unhurried Leadership: A Path for Latina Christian Leaders
Here are some practical tips to battle hurry:
- Practice Sabbath as resistance —reclaim rest as a spiritual discipline, not a luxury.
- Create daily silence — Even 5–10 minutes of quiet can reset emotional and spiritual focus.
- Simplify commitments — Encourage you to say “yes” only to what aligns with calling and capacity.
- Use technology intentionally — Reduce digital noise to increase spiritual attentiveness.
Unhurried leadership is not about doing less—it is about leading from a place of spiritual strength. It is about slowing down enough to hear God’s voice, see people clearly, and stay aligned with your true calling.
Latina Christian leaders have a powerful role in the Kingdom. But you were never meant to lead at a pace that destroys you. Jesus invites you into a rhythm that restores you—a rhythm full love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control, not hurry.

Gabriela Sanchez is a CLLI graduate and serves as CLLI Board member. Sanchez is also a graduate from UNC Charlotte with a bachelor in business administration and Wake Forest University with a master in business administration. Sanchez resides in Charlotte, NC with her husband Erick and their son Liam. In addition, she serves as a treasurer at her local church La Voz de la Esperanza Baptist Church.
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